How Prospects Invite Themselves to Join My Business – Fran Loubser
How to attract your downline

How Prospects Invite Themselves to Join My Business

Imagine for a hot minute prospects inviting themselves to join your business!

Where you are attracting your downline to work with you

And you have become the hunted and not the hunter and you can quit prospecting for good!

Because, be honest now, does this sound familiar..?

You’re constantly inviting people to take a look at your business—but all too often you’re hearing a resounding, “No!”

…or worse yet, “Let me think about it.”

Kinda discouraging, right?

Maybe you’ve started thinking to yourself…

  • “Gee, prospecting sucks!”
  • “How do I get people to invite themselves to join me?”
  • “How can I finally transform all the actions I’m taking into actual, concrete results (like new customers and distributors)?”

Hey, we’ve all been there!

Sometimes prospecting can make you feel like you’re chasing people away instead of attracting them to you.

But here’s the truth…

The problem with a lot of “traditional” online marketing methods is this:

Most of what’s being taught simply doesn’t work!

In fact, if you’re following the advice of an old, out-of-touch upline, you might very well be…

Repelling people rather than attracting your downline!

Luckily, I’ve got a solution.

It’s called the “Reverse Invite Method.” 

I’ve learnt it from my business partners and mentors, Whit and Cari Higham and it works!

Every day, somewhere between 15 and 20 people reach out to them to ask exactly what it is that they’re doing.

They are, quite literally, inviting themselves to take a look at their business.

And I’m getting people asking me every day too.

Their method starts with creating curiosity.

It relies on making yourself so unique people want to reach out to YOU and invite themselves to take a look at whatever it is you’re doing.

So you don’t have to worry about prospecting because you’ll have a constant, never-ending stream of people reaching out to you.

Now, you’re probably wondering how this works, what platform you use, and if it’s free or paid.

Well, here are the basics…

Facebook is our primary platform

We use both paid and organic strategies.

You can use this method on your personal profile, your business or fan page, and in groups.

The Reverse Invite principles are always the same!

It all starts with a post to create curiosity.

There are two types of curiosity posts that work best:

  1. Basic, text-based with picture
  2. Facebook Live

If you’re tight on funds, you can start using organic, free exposure in the News Feed.

But when you pay to boost one of these posts, you’re paying to get in front of a global audience, and that’s when you can start to scale and create leverage.

So how do you create a post that attracts people to you and gets them inviting themselves to join you?

I do a lot of Facebook Lives—it’s my “go to” strategy.

I learnt this from Whit & Cari, my strategy in online marketing is always to find people who are successful, figure out what they’re doing and  do the same. I’m not talking copy and paste but make it your own.

Remember, people are attracted to people, so be you, let your personality shine, let your light shine bright!

Whether you’re using a basic post or a Facebook Live, just ask yourself:

“What do people need to know about what I’m promoting to get them to enroll, or to move forward?”

The answer to that question will be different for everybody.

It might be one, two, even three things that people need to know.

  • What’s holding them back or keeping them stuck?
  • What critical information are they missing to solve their issue?
  • What revelation or realization do they need to move forward?

Find those things.

Dig deep into whatever PAIN or PROBLEM they’re going through right now.


Instruct them to take action to learn more

Maybe you ask them to comment “more info” on your post.

Maybe you ask them to follow a link so they can get more detailed information.

Or maybe you instruct them to message you via Messenger for more information.

That’s how you “reverse” the invite.

You lead people to the point at which they think…

“Yeah, this novel solution sounds like it will eliminate my pain and solve my problem!”

And they will invite themselves.

Now, here’s a question we get often:

Should you share your product on your Facebook Lives?

And the answer is: absolutely, positively, NO!

That’s the biggest mistake any new networker or affiliate marketer can make.

New marketers think it’s the product that gets people excited.

The truth is, people don’t care about your products!

They don’t have enough information to care about your products.

You have to make them aware they need your products first.

The secret is simple…

It’s NOT your product or service that is going to attract your downline!

It all comes down to finding out what makes YOU, or whatever you’re selling, unique.

How does your product or service help someone reduce or eliminate whatever pain they’re experiencing right now?

As an example, let’s talk about weight loss.

People are NOT interested in learning how to lose weight.

They already KNOW how to lose weight.

What IS interesting to them is how your product is DIFFERENT from anything else they’ve seen.

What IS interesting is your unique position about your products.

Once you persuade someone to walk through your process until they say, “Yes, I need to talk to you about something,” then you can have the conversation about why they need what you have.

Make sense?

Getting people to the first “Yes” is the most important part

You’ll talk about the problems they’re having, you’ll show you understand and can relate to those problems, and then you’ll tell them there’s a solution—WITHOUT giving it away.

You’ll ask them to DO SOMETHING to get the information they want.

In other words, you’ll set it up so that they have to take action and reach out to you to get the info they want.

You create curiosity so they want to learn more.

And the best way to create curiosity is by telling a story.

You’ve probably heard that “facts tell, stories sell.”

People in network marketing hear that all the time, yet few people understand how this really works.

Compelling stories make people WANT to get onboard with whatever you’re doing.

Some online marketers can’t stop themselves from talking on and on and on about how amazing their lives are and how much their lives have changed since they joined their company—and it ANNOYS the heck out of their friends, family, and anybody else who’s subject to it.

So how do you keep from annoying people?

How can you attract people instead of repelling them?

Well, here’s another simple truth…

Your company, whatever system you’re using, did not get you where you are.

Your company or product may be the vehicle, but YOU attract your prospects

So instead of focusing on your product, service or company, you should focus on yourself as a unique individual with a unique story.

Focus on making YOU that unique selling point so that people reach out to you.

It doesn’t matter what company you’re with.

It doesn’t matter what product you promote.

YOU create a bond and develop rapport with people through your story, through your posts, through your Facebook Lives, so your prospects will say…

“I like Fran. I want to work with her.”

The bond YOU create with people is going to take you much further with them than your product ever will.

Think about it this way…

You’ve just started with your company and someone says:

“Hey, you’ve been with this company for a little while – how’s everything going?”

Are you honest or do you answer with a lie?

And say…

“Oh, you know, my life has changed. It’s going great!”

I’ve totally said this, when in fact I was crying inside

“Oh my God – this freaking sucks! I not only haven’t made any money, I’m LOSING money since I started!”

Thank God I learned to flip that story on its head.

I started telling the TRUE story about what I was going through

And when I started telling the truth about where I was and how I was, my presence started to shift.

Then people could authentically connect with me.

They felt the truth of my story.

And again this was something I learnt from Whit and Cari

People found what I was experiencing valuable.

Ultimately, the “big secret” is to come from a place of SERVICE.

When I told people my life was “amazing,” they knew I was full of BS!

They saw right through it. 

For Whit and Cari, they were still living in their parent’s basement…

“Yeah, that’s funny because you still live in your mother-in-law’s basement and your car looks like it hit a million animals, so obviously your life isn’t that amazing.”

They saw right through them.

And right through me too!

It came through in my energy…in my body language…in my “presence.”

When I changed my focus to one of service, by asking …

“How can I best serve the people I’m trying to attract? How can I bring value to their lives?”

Then things started changing.

Suddenly people were attracted to me 

The more authentic you are, the more you focus on bringing service and providing value, you become that servant-leader, and that’s when people come and want to join you.

Fow Whit and Cari, all they did was share the truth about their story.

They didn’t say…

“Yeah we’re making a ton of money. We’re doing this and buying that. Here are all our credentials about what we’ve done.”

They just told the truth.

“Hey, here’s where we are. This is what we’re doing now, and this is what’s happening now. These are the results we’ve had. This is what’s working for us. You can make it work, too. Let us show you how to do that.”

It’s that simple.

And that is exactly what I have been doing too.

This is what’s called “Attraction Marketing”

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I’ve had friends run away from me on the street, literally do an about turn and run, rather than speak to me.

I’ve seen my family roll their eyes when I’ve tried to prospect at a dinner party or in the queue at the supermarket.

Those days are over for me.

They can be over for you, too.

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